Do you want to get a commitment from the man that you're dating? Are you ready to make him yours? Are you afraid that if you push you will scare him away instead? Commitments are touchy subjects with most men. Add to that a little pressure and you are likely to make him run away from your rather than into your arms. However, if you work at it you can make the man you're dating commit. It just takes some well played moves and you will get a commitment.

Avoid being pushy.
While it is easy to want to push him into a commitment, it will never work. The pushier you are the easier it will be for him to walk away. Instead you want to make sure that you are moving him in the right direction and not away from you. To do this you should avoid being pushy at all costs.

Show him a good time.
You can get a lot of showing him a good time. This is going to make him want to be with you more and spend more time with you. This will give him the positive emotions that are important for your future relationship. This is also the best way for the two of you to get to know each other.

Spend time apart.
It is easy to get excited about a new relationship and want to jump right into it and neglect your life. However, you need to spend some time apart. This will give him a reason for a commitment, it will make him miss you, and will also show him that you aren't desperate or needy. While you are spending time apart you should continue to live your own life and keep up with your interests and friends.

Talk to him.
It is important that you talk to him. You need to do this in plain English. This is where you should tell him what you want from the relationship. You want to tell him that you want to get a commitment, but make sure you do it without putting pressure on him, being pushy, being emotional, or getting angry.

Give him some space.
Once you have shown him a good time and let him know what you want you should make sure you give him enough space. This is when he will decide what is best for him. Usually this is when a man will decide to make a commitment. After all, you have shown him that it is important to you and that you are someone he wants to spend more time with!

These are the things you need to do to get a commitment. Remember to avoid being emotional in these things. It is important that you show him what you want and let him know how you are feeling without getting upset!